Having Discussions
I was observing the other day (something which I often do) that people are more reserved than they need to be, and about odd things. When I'm having a discussion, there is very little that I won't tolerate well. I don't have a problem with differences of opinion. An interesting conversation has at least a couple, and that's if I'm just having it with myself!
I'm aware that there is not always a tactful way to say something, or that the words sometimes get away from people. I'm also aware that some words are incredibly loaded with connotation. I do not think that should be a barrier to discussion. If something can't be said tactfully it should be said bluntly, rather than not being said at all. If people aren't making points because they're afraid of offending someone, they shouldn't bother. On the other hand, if people are offended in a discussion by frank terms, they need to thicken their skin a bit.